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Most roadblocks aren’t external. They’re assumptions. You assume: • You’re not ready. • You have to do it alone. • This is the only way forward. • They already know what you meant. But what if that assumption isn’t true? 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗸𝗲𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀: 𝗡𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝘀𝘀𝘂𝗺𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝘁. That’s where…

Uncertainty reveals you. Not the version of you that shows up when the path is clear, but the version that steps forward when nothing is certain. That’s where self-awareness matters most. • What internal strengths can you lean on? • What are your values in this moment? • Where might you need help? • What’s…

You can’t delegate this. Culture doesn’t change because of a poster on the wall. It begins to change through how you show up every day. • The moment you respond to bad news… • The way you handle tension during a tough meeting… • The consistency you show when no one’s watching… That’s what shapes…

What does it really mean to invest in your people? For me, it’s not about expecting a clear, measurable ROI. It’s about being willing to give something of mine… • My time • My attention • My influence • My resources Or something from the organization I serve… • Access to tools or coaching •…

What’s ‘growth mindset’ mean to you? For me, it starts with belief: Do you believe you can continue to learn, grow, and develop as a person and a leader? But it can’t stop there. If you believe it, but never leave your comfort zone… If you only do what you’re already good at… Is that…

“𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲” = “𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮 𝗽𝗿𝗶𝗼𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆.” That’s what I hear when leaders say it. Because when something is a priority, you make time. If you’re saying “I don’t have time” to the work of clarifying your purpose… And about revealing what truly matters to you… • values • passions • strengths •…

“𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀?” When my boss asked why I wanted to be a commanding officer one day, I answered: “𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗽.” And the moment I said it, I knew that answer wasn’t good enough. That’s when it hit me: I’d been following the 𝗴𝗼𝗹𝗱𝗲𝗻 𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵. I was doing…

You can’t lead with alignment if you say “yes” to everything. The key? Getting clear on your values first. If you’re not clear on what truly matters to you, everything starts to look like a “yes.” The first place I recommend starting? Reflect on your core values. Ask yourself: 1. What are the non-negotiable attributes…

AI can handle the surface. But leading with depth is still on us. As technology gets better at managing the cognitive load our work as leaders shifts. We’re being called to do something only humans can: • Tune in. • Get curious. • Lead from a deeper place. That means learning to notice what’s inside.…

“𝗜’𝗹𝗹 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗶𝘁… 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗮𝘆.” That’s what I used to tell myself. Let me finish this tour. Let me hit that next milestone. Let me make it to 30 years of service. Then I’ll start the coaching business. Then I’ll do what I 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 feel called to do. But here’s the trap: There’s always a…

Want your team to admit when something goes wrong? Start by showing them it’s safe. In my first week as commanding officer, I made a call I shouldn’t have. It wasn’t a crisis, but I owned it. In front of the whole team. Why? I wanted a culture where people felt safe to admit mistakes.…

You can follow the accepted path and still feel ‘off.’ For a long time, I did what most high performers do. • I took the next step. • Then the next one. • And the one after that. Because that’s what success looks like, right? Keep advancing. Keep achieving. But eventually, I had to pause…