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CLARIFY YOUR WHY

Why am I even doing this? Sound familiar? Have you spent years climbing the career ladder but never stopped to ask ‘why?’ I did after 17 years in the Navy. And what I realized changed everything. Committing to self-discovery and understanding my Blueprint was a game-changer. It allowed me to: Unearth the ‘why’ behind every…

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DO YOU HAVE A SIDE BUSINESS?

Is a side business just about extra cash, or is it a gateway to personal and professional transformation? Beyond extra income, side businesses: 1. Offer a platform for self-reflection and realignment with one’s Blueprint. 2. Are integral to career and personal development. 3. Can complement and enhance overall performance at your primary job. A side…

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PLAY YOUR OWN GAME

Are you playing your own game or getting lost in someone else’s? Compete with yourself, not the world. Play your own game.  Here are 4 reasons: Embracing self-competition propels personal growth. It shifts focus from external benchmarks to internal progress. You avoid the exhausting race of constantly comparing with others. It nurtures a mindset of…

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IS YOUR PATH CHOSEN? OR INHERITED?

There’s a pattern I keep running into. A lot of the paths we’re on weren’t really chosen. They were inherited. Encouraged. Rewarded. Modeled. And for a long time, they work. You’re productive. Capable. Even successful. Until there’s a quiet moment where something feels…off. Not wrong. Just unexamined. This clip captures how I’ve been thinking about…

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PASSION. MEANING. PRESENCE.

I’ve been thinking about something after a conversation with my coach this week. We talked about AI, content, and efficiency. And then we talked about what actually creates connection. AI can create the image of a fire. It just can’t warm the room. That comes from something else. Passion. Meaning. Presence. It reminded me that…

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STOP STEALING LEARNING MOMENTS

One of the easiest leadership traps to fall into is this: • You see the situation. • You’ve done something similar before. • You know how you would handle it now. So you tell your teammate what to do. It feels efficient. Helpful, even. But there’s a cost most leaders don’t notice until later. When…

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INTENTION, NOT RESOLUTIONS

Before next year starts asking more of you, it’s worth noticing what this year already changed. Not in terms of titles or accomplishments. But in how you experience your role. For many leaders I work with, this is the year where: • the work felt heavier than expected • decisions took more energy than they…

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WRONG ENOUGH

Most leaders don’t come to coaching because things are falling apart. They come because even though things are working, they’re not working as well as they could. They’re competent. Trusted. Respected. And still, something feels off. Not urgent. Not dramatic. Just persistent. • The role feels heavier than expected • Decisions take more energy than…

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EMPATHY ISN’T ABOUT BEING NICE

Empathy isn’t about being nice. It’s knowing your teammate well enough to understand what they might be feeling in the moment, not how you’d feel in their place. That insight doesn’t replace candor. It sharpens it. It helps you deliver the feedback they need in a way they can actually use. That’s the kind of…

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REAL ALIGNMENT

Alignment doesn’t come from telling people what to care about. It comes from helping them connect what they already care about to the mission. Here’s something we do with each ready room in LRR: (🎥 Check out the clip: https://lnkd.in/eiMC8CwR) Ask your team to reflect: 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘶𝘦𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 𝘸𝘦…

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FIGHT FOR FEEDBACK

Leaders talk a lot about giving feedback. But how often are you getting it? The higher you climb, the harder it becomes to receive honest input. People hesitate. They soften the truth. That’s why, as Tom Murray shared during our recent Leadership Ready Room Chats, sometimes you have to fight for feedback. He literally scheduled…

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ACHIEVEMENT STOPS BEING ENOUGH

There’s a moment when achievement stops being enough. Years ago, my commanding officer asked me a simple question: “Why do you want to be a commanding officer?” I paused for a bit then said, “Because it’s the next step.” That’s when he said something that stuck with me, not word for word, but the message…

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